Dear Abby: In a few days, the second anniversary of my husband’s death will be here. We were together for 40 years. It was not easy years; He had many problems, both physical and mental. He was isolated because he did not want others to know the extent of what he lived every day. I was deeply concerned about him and as a woman, it was for better or for worse.
It has been tough, but he felt he was dealing with. I am 63 years old and I thought my life was over. Now, I don’t know what my body does, but I’m experiencing intense feelings I thought were very dead.
Take care of my husband for so many years, I let go (my weight and look). But now I am eating healthy, I have lost a few kilos and I am trying to work in my appearance. I don’t understand why my body at this age has decided to return to life.
I live in a rural area and I have no idea how to meet big men. I spent many lonely years that I thought I had killed all hope and love, but suddenly I realize that this is not true. I’m so mixed.
I say I’m a nonsense, but my body will not hear. I hope you don’t think I’m a night because this is a real problem. Thank you for any tip.
—Reawaced in oklahoma
Dear Reawakened: You have gone through a difficult time. Being a full -time caregiver is carried and stressful. After these years taking care of your sick husband, it is not uncommon for you to forget to take care of yourself. Well, this load is now rising and you have a lot of life ahead.
The good news is that for someone who takes care of herself – who exercises regularly and eats healthy – your life is full of possibilities and far from ending. This is what your body is trying to say.
Start exploring activities that allow you to meet people and make new friends. If you do, you may find someone very well and return to a couple.
Dear Abby: Debo about $ 200,000 in loans for students for my postgraduate school education. I am a middle -aged woman who has health problems. My income is marginal, as is my career. He had been expecting a six -figure income, having a house, having a family and enjoying some stability at this time. Obviously, this has not come out, nor do I consider my situation to change.
I am single, educated and still poor. I crack more than 40 hours a week without benefits, without long -term stability, without a house and only marginal survival. How should I explain all this if I started to go out with someone? When do I have to mention my debt with any perspective before I saw it running to the nearest exit?
—Money is upset in the East
Dear Money: If you should be lucky to meet someone you think is special, the first words outside your mouth should have nothing to do with the bank balance. Meet the person. Do -to know you -you are before disseminating anything about your financial situation. At this point, many people from both sexes are concerned about their future financiers. You are far from these concerns.
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