Dear Abby: My late husband and I were married for 38 years when we finally went to marriage advice. Then I found out that I had slept with my sister soon in our marriage. He suspected that he had also had an adventure with his uncle’s wife. (They were very close.) This was also confirmed in advice.
My sister was recently at home for our mother’s health and was a struggle to be in the same hospital room with her. As for the other GAL, there are some occasional family meetings, which I avoid because of it.
I need help. How can I do it after all these years?
—E there is not yet
Dear not above: return your life. You have nothing to be ashamed of. Say -your sister and the other woman you know were sleeping with your husband. And at the next family meeting, tell the rest of your relatives why you avoided all previous meetings, so they don’t think they were the reason.
Dear Abby: There is a woman at the work I am attracted to, but I am tired of leaving -me. She is very talking to me and asks me a lot of questions, but when I came to her, I reinforce myself. He says he has a boyfriend. I’m not sure why it’s so kind to me but I feel like I’m receiving mixed messages.
In our work, occasionally we have to work side by side and, when this happens, I am in conflict as to whether to open or close. Maybe he should ask -if he still has a boyfriend and, if he does, communicate -about the task in his hand. The chat on the slowdown becomes uncomfortable because I want something more. What is the best course of action?
—NEXT FOR THE NEW JERSEY
Dear side: Ask -again if you still have a boyfriend would not be out of line. However, if your answer is yes, forget -nothing more than a cordial work relationship because not all attractions are mutual. Focus -you are at work while you are there and look for another place for romantic after hours.
Dear Abby: I went out with this lady for three months. She wanted to wait to commit to a relationship before having sex. We had a limited time to see each other: Saturdays and Sundays. We would go out and return to its place and be very passionate, although we did not have sex due to their religious beliefs.
He has now decided not to continue a relationship with me because he did not feel the “flame” of a connection with me. After all this kiss, hugging -approaching and approaching sex sometimes, how could I feel so? I played?
—Thetionally confused in Texas
Dear Confused: Give Mrs. Marques to be honest if you couldn’t return your burning. Depending on what I was receiving from the relationship, as well as kissing, hugging and passion, if you played it is a question you can only answer.
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