Dear Eric: Is it normal for a single man over 60 wants a baby? Where should a girl with a marriage mindset willing to accept the age difference? How do you have to deal with social stigma against December relations?
—Colled biological
Dear Clock: Anyone who thinks of turning to the father would be convenient to ask what is the root of this desire, how a child can fit into his life and lifestyle, what skills and traits they would benefit from a child and what skills they can learn to help them be a better father. In short, they should enter with the eyes as open as possible. If you haven’t done so yet, start asking these questions and see what appears.
Wanting to be a positive force in a child’s life and feel the unique love that comes from being a father is quite natural, if he was not, the species would be in greater danger than it is. Researching your feelings will also help you to be a better potential partner and will prepare you for conversations with this partner about being a greater parent and the stigma of December Relations. Be honest on dates and dating sites on what your hopes are and why.
The questions can also take you to another answer: you may want to be a positive presence for a child in a different way, such as volunteering, fostering or participating more with family and friends and their children. Try to be creative in your thinking. (All parents will tell you that creativity is key anyway.) You may not want a baby (and the Foods of 4 AMs can be achieved with a baby). Maybe what really yearns is the family. There are so many different ways to create and grow a family.
(Send questions to R. Eric Thomas to Eric@askingic.com or PO Box 22474, Philadelphia, Pa 19110. Follow it on Instagram and register -in his weekly newsletter at Rerithomas.com.)
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